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No One Has All The Answers But God!

Never think you have learned everything you possibly no matter what age you may be! Life is a voyage and we must learn to ride the waves! Sometimes I just want to chuck it all and just say forget that! But I don't I love my life!

The older we become the wiser we become, I heard my parents say that over and over! I soon discovered that is not always the case! Some people mature at least by the time they are forty right! Wrong I have friends and family members who are still playing the game of he said she said, its all about me, I am more needy than you are, therefore I deserve not I earned or will pay for I DESERVE! Where I grew up nothing was free for the taking, and very few extras to share, but we shared and exchanged help. However no one was ever just given something for nothing, unless it ws Christmas or your Birthday! That may teach you it was okay
to expect things for nothing and my parents felt thatwas not something we needed to learn! Kindness and charity was my moms way of life,but teaching someone it was okay to expect things was not! She always said if evryone expects something for nothing how would anyone earn any money to pay the bills?

Lets be frank, we all think that we will retire at a certain age and all will be hunky dory, we will ride off in the sunset and do whatever our heart desires! Second of all life is never that black and white anyway!

Disney World here we come!! That would be so nice however most of us would go stir crazy and be looking for things to do,
I have been in this world over sixty years and I have very few close friends because I see the world differently!

I do not always agree with my spouse , but we are on the same page 97% of the time! That is a rare thing and I know that! I disagree with my children more often than not because when I turned fifty they decided I was senile! I am not an easy person I am complicated as I have been told by many!

To look at me you would think differently but if you converse with me you will see that I am a complex individual and I am also very opinionated that is why I have so few close friends!
I will help anyone in need there lies my weakness, however using me is not an option no matter who you may be!

We have been taken advantage of several times in the last 27 years or so, but I figure all and all we did well by others! I will go without a Christmas present, or a day off is I feel that is what needs to be done!

Christmas for me is about celebrating the whole year and being thankful for our life our business ourfamily and our friends who are well and safe!

Remembering we can all learn no matter how mature we are from others and only God has all the answers but he did give us all the necessary tools. If we pay attention we may find that some people may have some good advice about certain things because they have lived through some of the things that are now happening to us, so as we age in years may we age in mind and maturity as well. I love my life and have many things to share not all are going to be what you may need ,but I m sure we could all learn from each other!

Have a great life and listen and learn along the way!

mlana

Sunday, December 16, 2007

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